Fear also pops in when we feel like our world is out of control.
And there are plenty of things we cannot control such as what others do or say or our health or natural disasters. Often however this feeling of being out of control is completely within our control as odd as this sounds.
You can’t change what other people say but you can change how you react to what they say.
You can’t change what other people do but you can change what you do in response to their actions.
You can’t change Mothers natures mind but you can prepare yourself for the wrath.
You can’t change a medical diagnosis but you can gather the information you need to walk towards a better outcome.
If you go into battle with a fork chances are good you will feel like you have no control over the outcome but if you go into battle with a belief in your super powers all things are possible.
Bottomline is we all deserve the love, security and a sense of well being. No matter who you are you deserve these things and you deserve to be respected and loved for the divine creation you are. God didn't make some women less than others. We were created equal in heart and soul. The wrapping may be different but the essence the humanity the spirit of womanhood that is the same in all of us.
So please know it's okay to take care of yourself, it's okay to speak up and be heard and it's okay to want more. And if anyone tells you differently then they have a vested interest in keeping you where you are and that my sister is not where you want to be.
Its time to give back the words you have used to define yourself with. Maybe your teacher told you that you wouldn't amount to anything, or your mother said no one would love you or ex- husband said you were stupid lazy and so forth. Those words were untruths told to keep you powerless - its time to give them back. Its time to define yourself by your own words. I am awesome, I am creative, I am intelligent, I am capable or I am a walking miracle deserving of abundance in all of its forms. Their words were anchors keeping you from the life you deserve, cut the cord set them free and step into the awesomeness which is you!
Choices these are the things which create your future.
In every moment of every day you will be faced with choices. Some big some small but each one will influence which direction your life will take. Free will is a gift which enables you become creator of your own life. The power is in your hands.
We weren't put here to be perfect - we were put here to be awesome!
If you wouldn't say it to your best friend don't say it to yourself. Have your own back - boost yourself up don't bring yourself down!
Here is what happens when you take a step you close the gap between where you want to be and where you are. You do not have to be a rocket scientist to understand the logic behind it.
Your Questions answered. What if there was an Angelic Newspaper called ‘The Daily Halo’ and what if instead of a Dear Abbey column there was a Dear God one. Because who hasn’t on some occasion gone “Oh my God!” or “Dear God what now” or “God help me.” What if there was a mailbox where humans wanting answers could drop a note to God and read the response in the following weeks ‘Daily Halo’.
When people say to me “you are awesome”, I don’t go “No I am not, but thanks anyway.” I stand tall and go “why thank you!”
Awesome is being the best version of you. Awesome is the moment you realize “F**k yeah I’ve got this!”